February 24, 1924 - May 19, 2018
Rosemary Anne Balk was born in St. Lucas, Iowa, on February 24, 1924, the second of seven children of Philip Ulrich Balk and Agnes Catherine Greteman. Her sister Suzanne was three years older, and her sister Phyllis was five years younger. When Rosemary was 11, triplet sisters Victoria, Elizabeth and Nancy Jean were born, but did not survive the day. Her younger brother Thomas Phillip was born when she 14.
She grew up in the small town of Waucoma in northeastern Iowa. School and church were just north of her home, past a high hedge. Her father’s Ford dealership and auto repair shop were two blocks away. As a teenager, she helped in the large family garden and pumped gas at the filling station. During the Depression, bartering was common and her father was sometimes compensated for auto repair work in eggs, potatoes, or mason jars of sorghum.
Rosemary excelled in school, graduating as salutatorian of her high school class (out of 10 students, she would point out), was an accomplished clarinet player, and a conference all-star basketball player. She graduated from the College of St. Catherine in Saint Paul, Minnesota where she majored in food science, and sang popular songs to entertain classmates in a trio called The ABC’s. After graduation, she worked as a food scientist at Pillsbury where she helped develop the first cake mixes and pie crusts.
In 1947, she married Thomas George Lovett. In 1953, they moved their growing family to a new house built on former potato fields in Richfield. During those years Rosemary was a busy homemaker following the many sports and music activities of her six children, sewing, and baking State Fair prize-winning cookies and cakes. Those stopping by to visit never left without a cookie or two and conversation. For years she met regularly with friends in her church “calendar club” and helped serve many funeral lunches.
After their children were grown Rosemary and Tom hosted their neighborhood’s annual get together. In later years she continued to be intellectually curious, was an avid reader, participated in several book clubs, and kept up a large correspondence with distant family and friends. She won her age group in a women’s 5K when she was well into her 70's, and with her husband delivered Meals on Wheels into her late 80’s. She regularly had lunch with old college and church friends, and enjoyed summer gardening and winter jigsaw puzzles among her other interests. In September of 2013, she and Tom celebrated their 66th wedding anniversary and 60 years in the same house.
For the four years before her husband’s death in 2014, she served as his full-time caregiver. In the years after his death she carried on Tom’s tradition of gardening and made decisions about the family farm until it was sold this past winter. She continued to live independently in her home, finding joy in her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, friends and neighbors. In addition to her six children she was blessed with 16 grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren.
She is survived by her six children: Michael (Sylvia), Thomas (Annemarie), Rick (Carol), Joe (Kim), Shawn (Lynn), and Mary Susan; grandchildren Kara (Russ Epperson), Patrick (Amy), Erin (Matt Blair), Matthew, Colin (Chelsea), Ian, Shannon (Brad Breidenbach), Thomas (Samantha), Emily (Brian Woodruff), Alec, David, Timothy, Logan, Abigail, Delaney (Gerard Gagnon) and Sean; twelve great grandchildren; her brother, Tom (Sue) Balk and sister-in-law Kathleen Mackenzie; Candace Lovett, and many other relatives and friends.
She was preceded in death by her husband Thomas George Lovett, and her sisters Suzanne Kretzschmar and Phyllis Finnelly.
Memorials preferred to the Church of St. Peter (Richfield) Endowment Fund
Mass of Christian Burial
Wednesday, May 30, 2018
10:30 AM
Her family will greet friends from 9:30 AM until the Mass at Church
St. Peter's Catholic Church
6730 Nicollet Avenue
Richfield, Minnesota 55423
Visitation
Tuesday, May 29, 2018
4-7 PM
Morris Nilsen Chapel
6527 Portland Avenue
Richfield, Minnesota 55423
I just talked to Rosemary last Thursday about lunch tomorrow. She sounded great as usual. Sharp as a tack. My mother, Eileen ‘Sis’ Foley Eaves, was her college roommate at St Catherine’s. I’ve been having lunch with my mother and her 1945 College classmates for the last 10 years. I am so sorry to hear about the family’s loss of such a wonderful woman. My heart is broken. Rest in peace, dear Rosemary.
What a beautifully written tribute about a beautifully led life! Rosemary indeed had a full life filled with with so many interests and so much love! Our deepest sympathy to all of the Lovett family. We are thinking of you and praying for your peace and comfort.
Love, Ed and Mary Gale
Mary Sue and family. We grieve for you in the loss of your formidable and wonderful matriarch! Peace and love to all of you as you move through this difficult process.
Condolences to you and your family. Your mother led an amazing life. She positively touched many people throughout the years. May you find peace in the days ahead.
My deepest condolences on your loss. While I did not know your mother, Michael, we share many interconnections with our parents and family. We too grew up in Richfield, my Dad worked for Pillsbury, and he baked a lot of bread that made it to the State Fair and won several ribbons. The pride we can feel that our parents left such a beautiful Legacy. Thank you for sharing this heartfelt tribute and obituary. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you cope with this unexpected loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Rosemary was my father’s first cousin (Neal Kruse 1913-1960, his parents were Kathryn Greteman and George Kruse of St. Lucas). I wish we would have been able to spend time with Rosemary, but connections were lost with my father’s early death at 47. Rosemary is a wonderful example of living life fully. I love that she was still running 5K in her seventies. Thank you for explaining her life in such a wonderful way! Anne and Dale Olson, Bozeman, Montana